Whether your ADD Student is looking for a part time job or planning a career, there are some things you should take into consideration.
First, think about temperament and ADHD symptoms. This is especially important when they are young and looking for a part time job. Like most kids, they are somewhat inexperienced and naive. They’ve been taught to respect authority and may do what is asked of them, without regards to safety.
If they get distracted while at work, is there a possibility that they could get hurt? Does the job provide opportunities for them to indulge their risk taking nature? Or is the job so mind numbingly dull that they might be tempted to goof off just for entertainment?
Obviously, a part time job is not likely to fulfill their every need, but it is important to try and find a good fit with their personality. It may also be a way to explore career choices.
When it comes to career choices, people with ADHD may tend to end up in a job that does not use their natural abilities and talents. It’s no secret that many ADD Students struggle with school despite their often high IQs. A low GPA can limit college choices and a difficult experience in school can lead to an ADD Student choosing to go to work rather than college.
Of course the jobs that you get with just a high school diploma don’t pay very much and they’re rarely rewarding career choices.
It’s easy for someone with ADHD to feel trapped and without hope.
There are lots of alternatives however.
A four year university away from home might not an option if the grades are too low. It also might not be the best choice for an 18 year old with ADHD. All the freedom that college provides and the resulting responsibility that you must take as a student can be too much for an ADD Student to handle.
Starting at a community college might be a better choice, although it’s not as popular with the kids. Community colleges have smaller, less intimidating campuses, more resources for learners – often including a special needs counselor, smaller class sizes and the advantage of living at home where you can still pitch in and keep them on track. And yes, they do still need that, even when they’re in college.
Trade schools and technical schools are another possibility, depending on your ADD Student’s interests. If they choose a program that offers a fast track, or a 1 or 2 year certificate, make sure they’re doing it because they truly want it and not because they’re trying to be done with school as soon as possible.
Finally, time can be an asset for your ADD Student.
My son went from high school to community college and didn’t do so well. He didn’t take it seriously and he didn’t make a lot of effort. A few years working in the real world coupled with time to mature did wonders. He is now attending Indiana University and doing very well. Homework gets done without my involvement (unless he needs help), he attends class regularly, and even turns his work in on time!
There is a light at the end of the tunnel for your ADD Student, too. You just have to wait for it.
